James Durbin gets a Koi tattoo on the TLC reality show, NY Ink. During his session with the tattoo artist, he talks about being bullied when he was younger. So bad, he was physically assaulted at one point.

He says when he eventually picked up a guitar, things got better, because he got lost in the music. Even if it sounded terrible, the music reflected how he was feeling inside.

The Koi sleeve James had inked has special significance;  Legend has it that the Koi fish swim upstream to a pool at the top where it becomes a dragon. “I decided I wanted to swim upstream rather than be like everyone else,” says James.

Watch James on NY Ink below

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  • Anonymous

     I maintain the position that I would be willing to bet that most rock people don’t truly give a damn about the personality of musicians, they just care about music put out by the artist

    If this were true, there wouldn’t be so much talk about rock cred., or rock stars having certain types of personalities.  People might not be consciously aware of it, but there are certain things that they pay attention to.  For example, if people learn that James’ songs come from his experiences, then they are going to be more receptive to his music.  That is part of marketing.  The handlers of rock stars have always made sure that we know certain things about their lives, even if those things were highly exaggerated.  That want to build a picture, and either get us to relate to the artists, or see them as larger than life.  There are very few discussions about rockers that just center around their music, at some point people will start talking about the artists history with women, drinking, drugs, or how they like to live hard and party.

    The music has to be good too, but the backstory helps get people’s attention.

  • http://twitter.com/Miztig Miz

    Also not into tattoos due to their permanence, but that one is quite beautiful. I like the story of the koi too.

    I like shows like this that give you a view of who they are as a person.

  • Anonymous

    For example, if people learn that James’ songs come from his
    experiences, then they are going to be more receptive to his music.

    I think we are going in circles. Knowing the background of Justin Bieber’s songs and the relationship they have to his experiences is not going to make me any more receptive to his music. Can’t see how it’ll work for James.

    Question for anyone…..

    There was another musician on the same episode of NYInk that spoke about her tatoo. Was anyone who
    watched the full NY Ink episode interested enough in her story to actively research her music? I know I didn’t give her a second thought after her spot was over.

    The music has to be good too, but the backstory helps get people’s attention.

    See the above example. I can not think of even one example in my life where I became interested in someone’s music just because their back story grabbed my attention. Again, this is such an Idol mentality that just can’t accurately be projected onto the average rock listener, even possibly the average music listener of any genre outside the Idol bubble. In the Idol world, music may be secondary and incidental (the discrepancy between # of people voting for certain Idols and those that actually purchase their music post-Idol says it all) but you can’t say this for those outside of it.

    And, btw, the term rock credibilty is used when speaking about the music an artist puts out and has absolutely nothing to do with personalities. Musicians are said to have lost their rock cred when their music no longer fits their “projected” genre. (for example, Kiss losing their supposed cred doing disco with “I was made for loving you” and Metallica choosing to go more mainstream with “The Black Album”) I can not think of one example of an artist losing ‘rock credibility” over a particular personality or lifestyle choice.

  • shamrock

    Poor James can’t get it right: If he doesn’t talk about AI he is ungrateful, if he is mentioning it, he is living in the past. ;)

    I am not into tattoos (could never get one myself – low pain threshold plus a needle phobic, LOL), but this one is really beautiful, at least for now on a big biceps, rather not imagine it on a wrinkly one. LOL.

    I like the story about the koi and it seems a perfect fit for James. :) There is a song by TLC “Don’t go chasing Waterfalls”, maybe we should change it for James in “Go chasing Waterfalls” – in this spirit: Happy Birthday, James! (I think I am still just about in time at your place :)) Hope to see you “up the waterfall”.

    About the album plugging: I am torn about it, in a way I like that he isn’t using a show about tattoos and their backstory for a shameless plug, but I also see the need of marketing/putting your name out there.

    As for his backstory: I guess interviewers will keep on asking him about it, and he is not (yet) in the position to pick and choose what he wants to answer and what not. And though I don’t think he revels in talking about his past, I don’t think he minds it too much, but most important of all I don’t get the impression, he talks about it because he wants anybody to pitty him – at least not the position he in now/the person he’s become – but more to bring awareness to a problem that is still largely ignored or sugarcoated.

    ETA:
    Something just came to my mind: A few weeks ago he said (tweeted?) that he had a new tattoo but couldn’t show it to the people. I rembember some teases/guesses if it might be in a “inapropriate place” to show. LOL. I guess he was talking about the NY ink tattoo then. :)