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		<title>By: lostmd</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 22:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam Lambert strikes me as looking for love in all the wrong places, not sure of who he really is as far as wanting to be loved (will a male or female suffice? when they are different kinds of love entirely), and as far as loving glitter, rhinestones, costumes, and singing, etc - that doesn&#039;t a gay male make - no matter how you cut it.  And personally, I would have loved to date a guy in high school who wasn&#039;t obsessed with football or jacket &amp; tie, liked music, and dressed with a cool rock flair - instead I got &#039;preppers&#039; and lacrosse players (the most stupid of the athletes) - who didn&#039;t know how to read music or appreciate that I played harp &amp; piano - which is not cool for a girl when you need to be a cheerleader.  Many outliers in high school are not gay or lesbian, just not &#039;normal&#039; for their peer group - and that&#039;s hard to understand, for the child or parents, depending on the particular peer group.  So Adam just be ok that you belong with outliers - not necessarily the gay crowd.  The outliers are the crowd portrayed on the tv show HEROES. 

Why didn&#039;t Adam Lambert&#039;s parents help him define his dramatic interests and music talents more, instead of fixating on that costume box, and help him get into a place like Juilliard for college - where he would have met with a group a lot like himself?  They seem like nice people, but fixated on that different child &amp; the antics.  The right college does help in finding oneself.  Keeping a Halloween costume box for a child just isn&#039;t letting that child, adolescent, or adult grow up - it&#039;s like keeping old First Communion dresses, high school uniforms, high school report cards (or grade school like James Taylor&#039;s parents), and that first prom dress - it&#039;s like Miss Havisham in Great Expectations (Charles Dickens) - living in the past and not evolving until the past goes up in flames from just not morphing.  Hopefully that Halloween box has gone to GOODWILL for auction.  

And I&#039;m in medicine - where you get a lot of kids confused about sexuality in high school because of teachers pushing lesbian &amp; gay lifestyles long before the SATs - it&#039;s somehow taught before math and verbal skills.  Even in medical school, we had professors and attendings in Ohio that were bargaining with students for recs for residencies by trading sexual favors - many times with students who weren&#039;t lesbian, gay or bisexual - and it was tragic at times - certainly didn&#039;t help any student&#039;s education or career in the long run.  And the confusion carried into their lives.  

A lot of men, especially men that go into medicine, are nerds; don&#039;t fit in, don&#039;t like sports, don&#039;t fit with the guys (especially the Walters), love being the center of attention, and every platform&#039;s a stage for them from high school on.  But it doesn&#039;t make them gay; they discover things, find cures, develop lab tests, sing in medical school productions, and usually have 5 children.  And many dress up in surgical scrubs long before they have that acceptance to Medical School; many male physicians-to-be call themselves DOC from high school on - just a guy thing for alternative-rock stars.  So I&#039;m not buying the gay, or gay outing, and the Halloween costume litmus test - Adam Lambert needs to have a chance to find love in the right places - male or FEMALE, and his parents need to let the adult Adam metamorphosis happen - without any more brining up of childhood &#039;dress up.&#039;  There are a lot of sensitive people, most are not gay or lesbian - just people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam Lambert strikes me as looking for love in all the wrong places, not sure of who he really is as far as wanting to be loved (will a male or female suffice? when they are different kinds of love entirely), and as far as loving glitter, rhinestones, costumes, and singing, etc &#8211; that doesn&#8217;t a gay male make &#8211; no matter how you cut it.  And personally, I would have loved to date a guy in high school who wasn&#8217;t obsessed with football or jacket &amp; tie, liked music, and dressed with a cool rock flair &#8211; instead I got &#8216;preppers&#8217; and lacrosse players (the most stupid of the athletes) &#8211; who didn&#8217;t know how to read music or appreciate that I played harp &amp; piano &#8211; which is not cool for a girl when you need to be a cheerleader.  Many outliers in high school are not gay or lesbian, just not &#8216;normal&#8217; for their peer group &#8211; and that&#8217;s hard to understand, for the child or parents, depending on the particular peer group.  So Adam just be ok that you belong with outliers &#8211; not necessarily the gay crowd.  The outliers are the crowd portrayed on the tv show HEROES. </p>
<p>Why didn&#8217;t Adam Lambert&#8217;s parents help him define his dramatic interests and music talents more, instead of fixating on that costume box, and help him get into a place like Juilliard for college &#8211; where he would have met with a group a lot like himself?  They seem like nice people, but fixated on that different child &amp; the antics.  The right college does help in finding oneself.  Keeping a Halloween costume box for a child just isn&#8217;t letting that child, adolescent, or adult grow up &#8211; it&#8217;s like keeping old First Communion dresses, high school uniforms, high school report cards (or grade school like James Taylor&#8217;s parents), and that first prom dress &#8211; it&#8217;s like Miss Havisham in Great Expectations (Charles Dickens) &#8211; living in the past and not evolving until the past goes up in flames from just not morphing.  Hopefully that Halloween box has gone to GOODWILL for auction.  </p>
<p>And I&#8217;m in medicine &#8211; where you get a lot of kids confused about sexuality in high school because of teachers pushing lesbian &amp; gay lifestyles long before the SATs &#8211; it&#8217;s somehow taught before math and verbal skills.  Even in medical school, we had professors and attendings in Ohio that were bargaining with students for recs for residencies by trading sexual favors &#8211; many times with students who weren&#8217;t lesbian, gay or bisexual &#8211; and it was tragic at times &#8211; certainly didn&#8217;t help any student&#8217;s education or career in the long run.  And the confusion carried into their lives.  </p>
<p>A lot of men, especially men that go into medicine, are nerds; don&#8217;t fit in, don&#8217;t like sports, don&#8217;t fit with the guys (especially the Walters), love being the center of attention, and every platform&#8217;s a stage for them from high school on.  But it doesn&#8217;t make them gay; they discover things, find cures, develop lab tests, sing in medical school productions, and usually have 5 children.  And many dress up in surgical scrubs long before they have that acceptance to Medical School; many male physicians-to-be call themselves DOC from high school on &#8211; just a guy thing for alternative-rock stars.  So I&#8217;m not buying the gay, or gay outing, and the Halloween costume litmus test &#8211; Adam Lambert needs to have a chance to find love in the right places &#8211; male or FEMALE, and his parents need to let the adult Adam metamorphosis happen &#8211; without any more brining up of childhood &#8216;dress up.&#8217;  There are a lot of sensitive people, most are not gay or lesbian &#8211; just people.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary102</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary102</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 13:02:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Yeah, IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m older than Adam and I still havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found the one, IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m not sure IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m even looking. But IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m not sad! No. I have American Idol and mjÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢s blog. How could I be sad? No, really. IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m happy. Happy, I tell you! :D&lt;/blockquote&gt;


Don&#039;t worry! You&#039;re not alone! I too am really happy being single and just enjoying life. There&#039;s nothing wrong with that. Love would be nice, but it comes when it comes, and I&#039;d rather be happy and single than miserable and with someone :-) 

I loved that story of Adam&#039;s though, about finding love. Definitely showing a more sensitive side with that moment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Yeah, IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m older than Adam and I still havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found the one, IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m not sure IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m even looking. But IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m not sad! No. I have American Idol and mjÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢s blog. How could I be sad? No, really. IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m happy. Happy, I tell you! <img src='http://3888.voxcdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></blockquote>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry! You&#8217;re not alone! I too am really happy being single and just enjoying life. There&#8217;s nothing wrong with that. Love would be nice, but it comes when it comes, and I&#8217;d rather be happy and single than miserable and with someone <img src='http://3888.voxcdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>I loved that story of Adam&#8217;s though, about finding love. Definitely showing a more sensitive side with that moment.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary102</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary102</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 12:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Saw the 20/20 piece - nothing really new, but it was good to hear him speak in person rather than just on page (which can always be misinterpreted or misconstrued). And I loved how they filmed the &quot;coming out to his Mom&quot; story with both him and his mom talking - I just love how open and supportive his parents are - what a great example! 

Also, finally got my issue of RS on Saturday!! And I saw a copy of it while I was working out at a local gym. Then I saw a very macho looking dude sort of pick up the RS issue, look at it, then put it back down. I felt like telling him, it&#039;s ok, don&#039;t be skerd! Ah, hetero men! (shakes head)

So we know 3 of Adam&#039;s songs, and I&#039;m guessing the other 2 are Idol songs. My guess (and hope), is MW and WLL. I seriously could NEVER get sick of MW - that song is just one of my all time favs, and he does it so brilliantly. He&#039;s not really doing a big rock song (other than SR) is he? So WLL would be great! (Or BorW)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Saw the 20/20 piece &#8211; nothing really new, but it was good to hear him speak in person rather than just on page (which can always be misinterpreted or misconstrued). And I loved how they filmed the &#8220;coming out to his Mom&#8221; story with both him and his mom talking &#8211; I just love how open and supportive his parents are &#8211; what a great example! </p>
<p>Also, finally got my issue of RS on Saturday!! And I saw a copy of it while I was working out at a local gym. Then I saw a very macho looking dude sort of pick up the RS issue, look at it, then put it back down. I felt like telling him, it&#8217;s ok, don&#8217;t be skerd! Ah, hetero men! (shakes head)</p>
<p>So we know 3 of Adam&#8217;s songs, and I&#8217;m guessing the other 2 are Idol songs. My guess (and hope), is MW and WLL. I seriously could NEVER get sick of MW &#8211; that song is just one of my all time favs, and he does it so brilliantly. He&#8217;s not really doing a big rock song (other than SR) is he? So WLL would be great! (Or BorW)</p>
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		<title>By: maryann21</title>
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		<dc:creator>maryann21</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 04:33:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam is so hot! I cant take him out of my mind. He is the next Elvis Presley. Love him. It doesnt matter to me at all if he is gay or not, bi or not... I love him for who he is. And those people who criticize him are in a way giving him more attention for even writin those comments. So go, Adam...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam is so hot! I cant take him out of my mind. He is the next Elvis Presley. Love him. It doesnt matter to me at all if he is gay or not, bi or not&#8230; I love him for who he is. And those people who criticize him are in a way giving him more attention for even writin those comments. So go, Adam&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bottleblonde</title>
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		<dc:creator>bottleblonde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:45:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just found this link on another site. It&#039;s background film of Adam posing for the RS shoot.

http://edition.cnn.com/video/#/video/showbiz/2009/06/09/vo.lambert.photo.shoot.rstone</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just found this link on another site. It&#8217;s background film of Adam posing for the RS shoot.</p>
<p><a href="http://edition.cnn.com/video/#/video/showbiz/2009/06/09/vo.lambert.photo.shoot.rstone" rel="nofollow">http://edition.cnn.com/video/#/video/showbiz/2009/06/09/vo.lambert.photo.shoot.rstone</a></p>
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		<title>By: RubySlippers</title>
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		<dc:creator>RubySlippers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 19:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.afterelton.com/blog/snicks/afterelton-puzzler-snake-charmer&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Snake charmer Puzzle&lt;/a&gt;

This is a test to see how well you know Adam&#039;s Rolling Stone cover.
Have fun!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.afterelton.com/blog/snicks/afterelton-puzzler-snake-charmer" rel="nofollow">Snake charmer Puzzle</a></p>
<p>This is a test to see how well you know Adam&#8217;s Rolling Stone cover.<br />
Have fun!</p>
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		<title>By: Susan M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry, as a footnote: I didn&#039;t mean to imply that people who are content in their personal lives don&#039;t do amazing things creatively. I was speaking from my own experiences and tendencies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry, as a footnote: I didn&#8217;t mean to imply that people who are content in their personal lives don&#8217;t do amazing things creatively. I was speaking from my own experiences and tendencies.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with Ross and jlc, I&#039;ve been looking for &quot;the one&quot; most of my adult life. It hasn&#039;t happened, yet I&#039;m still happy. Sometimes it&#039;s just not meant to be on our timeline. I can very much relate to Adam Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬&#039; wanting something profoundly but being powerless to &quot;make&quot; it happen. You can&#039;t. You can sometimes convince yourself that something wrong is right and often distract yourself for years in an unfulfilling relationship. I&#039;m glad he didn&#039;t settle.

Also, imagine if Adam did find what he was looking for romantically? From his past comments I think his auditioning for AI was part of his seeking what he was meant for in this life. Had he been comfortable in a relationship, there is a very good chance none of us would have ever heard of Adam Lambert.

I&#039;ve often looked back on my life and the work I&#039;ve done and said, &quot;Wow, if I would have been in a relationship and had kids then, I would have never written that book, taken that risk, pushed myself to the next level.&quot; I would have been comfortable and perhaps happy and my creative challenges would have remained in the context of my home life.

Life works in weird ways. I&#039;ve long since given up trying to make sense of why some people find &quot;the one&quot; and others do not. All&#039;s we can do is live our best lives with what we can control and do our best to be happy in every circumstance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with Ross and jlc, I&#8217;ve been looking for &#8220;the one&#8221; most of my adult life. It hasn&#8217;t happened, yet I&#8217;m still happy. Sometimes it&#8217;s just not meant to be on our timeline. I can very much relate to Adam Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬&#8217; wanting something profoundly but being powerless to &#8220;make&#8221; it happen. You can&#8217;t. You can sometimes convince yourself that something wrong is right and often distract yourself for years in an unfulfilling relationship. I&#8217;m glad he didn&#8217;t settle.</p>
<p>Also, imagine if Adam did find what he was looking for romantically? From his past comments I think his auditioning for AI was part of his seeking what he was meant for in this life. Had he been comfortable in a relationship, there is a very good chance none of us would have ever heard of Adam Lambert.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve often looked back on my life and the work I&#8217;ve done and said, &#8220;Wow, if I would have been in a relationship and had kids then, I would have never written that book, taken that risk, pushed myself to the next level.&#8221; I would have been comfortable and perhaps happy and my creative challenges would have remained in the context of my home life.</p>
<p>Life works in weird ways. I&#8217;ve long since given up trying to make sense of why some people find &#8220;the one&#8221; and others do not. All&#8217;s we can do is live our best lives with what we can control and do our best to be happy in every circumstance.</p>
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		<title>By: ross</title>
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		<dc:creator>ross</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 15:52:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m 40-something and havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ . Now that is sad. Thought IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢d found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ ¦but apparently I was wrong.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yeah, I&#039;m older than Adam and I still haven&#039;t found the one, I&#039;m not sure I&#039;m even looking. But I&#039;m not sad! No. I have American Idol and mj&#039;s blog. How could I be sad? No, really. I&#039;m happy. Happy, I tell you! :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢m 40-something and havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ . Now that is sad. Thought IÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢d found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ ¦but apparently I was wrong.</p></blockquote>
<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m older than Adam and I still haven&#8217;t found the one, I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;m even looking. But I&#8217;m not sad! No. I have American Idol and mj&#8217;s blog. How could I be sad? No, really. I&#8217;m happy. Happy, I tell you! <img src='http://3888.voxcdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: jlc</title>
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		<dc:creator>jlc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 12:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;IsnÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t it sad when you get to 27-28 and havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ ? Gay or straight, I thinkso&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&quot;No, itÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢s not Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œsad,Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬  glamadamfan. ItÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢s not even that unusual, is it?&quot;



I&#039;m 40-something and haven&#039;t found &quot;the one&quot;.  Now &lt;strong&gt;that&lt;/strong&gt; is sad.    Thought I&#039;d found &quot;the one&quot;...but apparently I was wrong.  What&#039;s sad is settling for less than &quot;the one&quot;--which I think many people do.  At this point, I would settle for less though... :lol_tb:
Of course, he&#039;d have to have his own bathroom cuz I&#039;m not sharing mine! :nono_tb:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>IsnÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t it sad when you get to 27-28 and havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ ? Gay or straight, I thinkso</p></blockquote>
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<p>&#8220;No, itÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢s not Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œsad,Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬  glamadamfan. ItÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢s not even that unusual, is it?&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m 40-something and haven&#8217;t found &#8220;the one&#8221;.  Now <strong>that</strong> is sad.    Thought I&#8217;d found &#8220;the one&#8221;&#8230;but apparently I was wrong.  What&#8217;s sad is settling for less than &#8220;the one&#8221;&#8211;which I think many people do.  At this point, I would settle for less though&#8230; :lol_tb:<br />
Of course, he&#8217;d have to have his own bathroom cuz I&#8217;m not sharing mine! :nono_tb:</p>
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		<title>By: ross</title>
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		<dc:creator>ross</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 12:02:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;IsnÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t it sad when you get to 27-28 and havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ ? Gay or straight, I think so.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

No, it&#039;s not &quot;sad,&quot; &lt;strong&gt;glamadamfan&lt;/strong&gt;. It&#039;s not even that unusual, is it?  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>IsnÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t it sad when you get to 27-28 and havenÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã¢â€ž ¢t found Ãƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬Ã…â€œthe oneÃƒ ¢Ã¢â€š ¬ ? Gay or straight, I think so.</p></blockquote>
<p>No, it&#8217;s not &#8220;sad,&#8221; <strong>glamadamfan</strong>. It&#8217;s not even that unusual, is it?</p>
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		<title>By: glamadamfan</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Susan M, I&#039;m also a huge fan of your comments here, and they&#039;re exactly what I would like to say, so I won&#039;t repeat them,  Bravo to you.  

Having had many gay friends, whose mothers I&#039;ve met, and a friend whose son is gay, yes, I&#039;d say Leila Lambert is not in the minority and handles herself and her son&#039;s sensitive personal orientation wonderfully, which many moms can relate to.  


I hope there comes a day when gays don&#039;t have to &quot;come out&quot; and it&#039;s as natural as being heterosexual, as it has always been to me.  I also hope this results in getting it out of the way for Adam, so he can have success as a musical genius, not someone everyone wonders is he, isn&#039;t he?  Because it truly doesn&#039;t matter.  Shouldn&#039;t matter.  Why does anyone still care in 2009?  

As for the bi-curious comments, smart move Adam.  Can anyone honestly admit that they haven&#039;t found a member of the same sex attractive at some point in their life?  I don&#039;t think so.  For that, he&#039;s honest, to a fault.  

I&#039;m so grateful he mentioned wanting to find love.  Doesn&#039;t every 20 something year old?  Isn&#039;t it sad when you get to 27-28 and haven&#039;t found &quot;the one&quot;?  Gay or straight, I think so.  Gays aren&#039;t evil demented creatures, as some religious zealots would like to paint them.  They&#039;re people, just like you and me, going through what we went through.  I&#039;m glad Adam brought that out!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan M, I&#8217;m also a huge fan of your comments here, and they&#8217;re exactly what I would like to say, so I won&#8217;t repeat them,  Bravo to you.  </p>
<p>Having had many gay friends, whose mothers I&#8217;ve met, and a friend whose son is gay, yes, I&#8217;d say Leila Lambert is not in the minority and handles herself and her son&#8217;s sensitive personal orientation wonderfully, which many moms can relate to.  </p>
<p>I hope there comes a day when gays don&#8217;t have to &#8220;come out&#8221; and it&#8217;s as natural as being heterosexual, as it has always been to me.  I also hope this results in getting it out of the way for Adam, so he can have success as a musical genius, not someone everyone wonders is he, isn&#8217;t he?  Because it truly doesn&#8217;t matter.  Shouldn&#8217;t matter.  Why does anyone still care in 2009?  </p>
<p>As for the bi-curious comments, smart move Adam.  Can anyone honestly admit that they haven&#8217;t found a member of the same sex attractive at some point in their life?  I don&#8217;t think so.  For that, he&#8217;s honest, to a fault.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m so grateful he mentioned wanting to find love.  Doesn&#8217;t every 20 something year old?  Isn&#8217;t it sad when you get to 27-28 and haven&#8217;t found &#8220;the one&#8221;?  Gay or straight, I think so.  Gays aren&#8217;t evil demented creatures, as some religious zealots would like to paint them.  They&#8217;re people, just like you and me, going through what we went through.  I&#8217;m glad Adam brought that out!</p>
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		<title>By: ianaleah</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:14:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The interview was much more interesting than I expected. Adam is courageously honest and refreshingly an authentic person of integity. I found his discussion of his teenage years to be enlightening on the experiences of being gay in high school. Adam&#039;s self motivation and success at everything his has strived for is unrecognized. This young guy is focused, self motivated, and enthusiastic about what he does.He has all the qualities of a winner.Especially moving was Adam&#039;s talking about his feelings about love and his important first discussion about being gay. His mother&#039;s inclusion in the interview was spot on perfect, it opened a window to the family&#039;s  experience of having a gay member. I came away with even more admiration, respect and love for this brillant talented kid than I had before. Adam Lambert is a fascinating, courageous, intelligent, articulate,personable young man and I wish all good for him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The interview was much more interesting than I expected. Adam is courageously honest and refreshingly an authentic person of integity. I found his discussion of his teenage years to be enlightening on the experiences of being gay in high school. Adam&#8217;s self motivation and success at everything his has strived for is unrecognized. This young guy is focused, self motivated, and enthusiastic about what he does.He has all the qualities of a winner.Especially moving was Adam&#8217;s talking about his feelings about love and his important first discussion about being gay. His mother&#8217;s inclusion in the interview was spot on perfect, it opened a window to the family&#8217;s  experience of having a gay member. I came away with even more admiration, respect and love for this brillant talented kid than I had before. Adam Lambert is a fascinating, courageous, intelligent, articulate,personable young man and I wish all good for him.</p>
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		<title>By: missmisty</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously,  though, I do think Adam&#039;s comment about not wanting to &quot;jinx&quot; his relationship with Drake is VERY telling.  Think about it...by not wanting to &quot;jinx&quot; it, it says that Adam is hoping and very possibly, already seeing, that it is going to development into something serious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously,  though, I do think Adam&#8217;s comment about not wanting to &#8220;jinx&#8221; his relationship with Drake is VERY telling.  Think about it&#8230;by not wanting to &#8220;jinx&#8221; it, it says that Adam is hoping and very possibly, already seeing, that it is going to development into something serious.</p>
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		<title>By: missmisty</title>
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		<dc:creator>missmisty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 09:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was just messin&#039; with ya, linsav!  No secret that I think they&#039;re adorable together!</description>
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